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Read Scripture. Go Deeper. Ask Questions. Take Action.
Father Forgive Them
Scripture
18 The message about the cross doesn't make any sense to lost people. But for those of us who are being saved, it is God's power at work.
Main Idea
When people's lives are coming to an end, each thing they say is more intentional and carries significance. This is why they cry when telling you they love you. Their heart aches with the thought this could be the last time they say it or the last time they see you on this earth. When Jesus was on the cross, every thing He uttered took intention and pain but each of those words do with significance and meaning for each of us. The first message Jesus uttered on the cross was "Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they are doing."
Any of our words could be our last words.
Discussion Questions
- What are some of the last words you remember from loved ones who have passed? Why do you remember them and how have they impacted your life?
- Why is it difficult for you to forgive others in the same way Jesus forgave you?
- Are there any times or examples where you have assigned intent or blame to someone that you found out later wasn't true?
Summary
Jesus taught His followers many things while He ministered, but there is always something meaningful about an individual's last words. Jesus made only a few statements while on the cross and His first one provides a wonderful insight into His life's mission. In Luke 24:33-34, Jesus pushed off His pierced feet to say, “Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they are doing.” Seeing the same people who earlier were whipping Him and nailing Him to the cross, He asked God to forgive them.
When you are present near the end of someone's life, you have a rare opportunity to gain eternal perspective from a loved one. Last words can be raw but they reveal someone's heart, their priorities, and sometimes their deepest regrets. Jesus is no different as He reveals His heart to us while He hung on the cross. He wants to make sure we know why He came to earth.
Isaiah 53:6 NLT reminds us that all of us have gone astray and missed the mark. Our sins or wrongdoing are against both God and others people. This is why there are two different types of forgiveness we need.
- Forgiveness for us to receive
- Forgiveness for us to give (Matt 5:44 NKJV)
Forgiveness is not easy but it is essential for us to live a life in Christ.
Take Action
- Accept the forgiveness that Jesus has provided for you.
- Think of one person you have been hoping would receive justice and pray that God would help you Forgive them.
- Lead with grace each day this week and assume positive intent with those you encounter.
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